Boundaries aren’t just about saying “no.”
- Suzanne Edgley
- May 13
- 1 min read

Boundaries aren’t just about saying “no.”
They’re about saying “yes” to yourself.
It’s not about being difficult or selfish – it’s about being intentional.
Because when you’re constantly saying “yes” to everything and everyone, you’re quietly saying “no” to yourself. To your own energy, your priorities, and your wellbeing.
Boundaries are how we:
Protect our peace
Honour our values
Stay aligned with what we actually want in life or business
Avoid burnout and resentment (hello, people-pleasers )
Think of boundaries as your personal garden fence – it doesn’t stop the sunshine or the good stuff coming in, but it does keep out the undesirables.
So, here’s your gentle reminder…
You’re allowed to change your mind.
You’re allowed to rest.
You’re allowed to put yourself first.
And you don’t need to explain, justify, or apologise for protecting your own energy
Ask yourself:
Where am I giving away time, energy or joy by not having clear boundaries?
What would feel more aligned, supportive, and spacious?
Let’s normalise boundaries as beautiful acts of self-respect – not walls, but wise choices.
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